Why People Want Mistresses To Dominate Them

Many people visit a dominatrix to be dominated. But why? What is it that makes people want to experience pain? Why do they want to give up control? It can be hard to understand the world of domination and what the submissive gets out of it. 

To enlighten you (and maybe widen your sexual horizons), let’s look at why mistresses are so popular and what reasons clients have for booking a dominatrix. 

What is a dominatrix?

A dominatrix is a sex worker who will dominate their clients to provide pleasure. They are trained experts in BDSM (bondage, domination/discipline and sadomasochism) and will take a dominant role in their encounters while commanding their clients into a submissive role. 

Whether in their own sex dungeon or their client’s home, they will undertake activities that may include verbal degradation, humiliating clients, using restraints, administering physical pain and many more. Sometimes no pain is involved at all. The focus on the power dynamic may be a bigger part of the appeal than the pain aspect. Dominatrixes will also engage in aftercare to return clients to a state of calm after the session is over and to create trust. 

Why Do People Want To Be Dominated?

People find a journey through discovery of different sides of their sexuality rewarding. The high intensity of pain felt can release a rush of adrenaline and endorphins in the body. While you may think this would make someone feel vulnerable, it often engenders a feeling of trust. 

By experimenting with pain stimuli in a controlled environment people can feel a sense of security. A commanding mistress will not let your mind wonder. Domination sessions may be the only time people can feel completely in the moment which can be freeing.

Many find relief in their submission. With so much stress in life, relinquishing control calms people as it can be rare to hand over power to anyone else. Those who want to be dominated often experience a cathartic feeling of letting go as they are often people in positions of power in daily life. 

What is taboo often attracts people. Being usually forced to hide these desires helps to increase the excitement from the activities. It can be a way to get permission to behave in ways they are not supposed to act. 

By exploring new parts of themselves, people often find a therapeutic release from being a submissive. It can be an incredibly meditative and personal experience. The roleplay involved creates a safe and playful space to experiment and make new discoveries about themselves. 

Why See A Dominatrix?

Turning to a dominatrix to satisfy your craving for domination means receiving a professional service. You can be sure your dominatrix will have boundaries and safety as a priority. Many people find it easier to explore kinks with a dominatrix when they cannot find a partner to explore these kinks with. Meeting with a mistress is a great way to satisfy these urges. 

Couples also turn to mistresses. To add another avenue of pleasure to their relationship or spice up a dull sex life, a dominatrix can help couples explore their sexuality in many different ways. 

Where to find a dominatrix

We have a plethora of gorgeous mistresses waiting to fulfil your desires whatever kind of kinky service you are after for whatever personal reasons you have. After a thrilling experience with one of our mistresses you will be wondering why you did not book a dominatrix sooner.

To book with us, contact +447809138166 or complete our online booking form! Explore your submissive side today!