A Beginner's Guide to Face Sitting

 

“Yes, my Queen. My face shall be your throne…”

For those of you who are yet to indulge in face sitting, well, let’s just say you’re missing out on one of the most intoxicating forms of dominance and submission. We get it though - there’s a first time for everything, and it’s only natural you have a question or two regarding the service.

So, what exactly is it? Why is it so popular? How can you go about enjoying it safely and sensationally? Won’t I get crushed under the weight of such a powerful face sitting escort? Slow down tiger and save your breath… you’ll need it. Just keep reading our beginner’s guide to face sitting, and we’ll lay it all out for you…

Contents:

• What Is Face Sitting?
• Why Do Men Like Face Sitting?
• But Do Women Like Face Sitting?
• Best Positions for Face Sitting
• Face Sitting Safety Tips for Subs & Doms
• The Best Tools & Toys for Face Sitting

 

What Is Face Sitting?

The clue’s in the name, surely? It’s a face… being sat on… right? Well, there’s a lot more to it than that.

But yes, face sitting (also known as Queening) is the act of one partner (the dominant one) sitting on or straddling the face of their submissive partner. Now, it’s not just a mistress sitting down for a rest, using your face as a seat… this is often done to facilitate oral sex or analingus, in which the woman on top is the one in control. She is the one in power, pushing herself onto your face… and you are helpless to do anything but pleasure her in just the way she wants.

So there you have it - the dominant mistress claims her throne, while the sub beneath her gets his very own front-row seat to the wettest of pleasures. 

 

Why Do Men Like Face Sitting?

Being smothered by the most intimate parts of your commanding mistress? Well, what’s not to love about it?!

For sub men, the act allows them to surrender their senses - sight, speech, and even breath - to a gorgeous and powerful woman. The core appeal, after all, is the power play aspect, and the idea of being smothered certainly helps to amp up the adrenaline and make the pleasure all the more intense.

Oh, and it’s not only submissive men who are drawn to the act. Name one man who wouldn’t enjoy the idea of having a peachy bum on their face, where the scent, taste, and warmth can be enjoyed in all their glory! And if she wishes to, she could even perform oral sex on you at the same time. 69 anyone?

Click here to learn more about why people love to be dominated. 

 

But Do Women Like Face Sitting?

Oh, of course. Just as much as men enjoy being controlled, women love being the ones in control.

Sitting on someone’s face is a way to say, “I’m in charge, bitch” without having to utter a single word. The position also puts all the right places within reach for oral stimulation - all a mistress has to do is wiggle and shift a little to find the perfect spot. And of course, knowing that a pathetic sub wants to be beneath her is a sexy affirmation of both your appeal and authority.

As Mistress Amy puts it: “There’s something so hot about seeing someone willingly lay beneath me, knowing they want me to put my full weight on their face. It’s quite empowering really. I can see why they call it Queening”

 

Best Positions for Face Sitting

Here are some of the most orgasmic ways for a mistress to take her rightful place on your face:

The Throne

This classic position involves her sitting directly on your face, facing forward. This setup offers her perfect control and gives you easy access to her pleasure zones.

Reverse Royalty

Have her spin around for a reverse face sitting position, in which she’s facing your legs. This offers a completely different perspective for both parties, and you get to enjoy a perfect view of her rear in all its glory.

The Capture

If you’re a fan of bondage, combine face sitting with restraint for this kinky position. Have her secure your hands above your head or bind your wrists behind your back, keeping you utterly at her mercy as she straddles your face.

Kneel-Down Command

Instead of sitting fully, have her kneel over your face. This position gives her more control over the pressure and allows her to easily switch between teasing and fully settling into the experience. It’s great for those who enjoy a more dynamic approach to face sitting.

Against the Wall Power Move

Have her stand with you seated or kneeling beneath her, and press your back against a wall for support. This position gives you one hell of a view, whilst also allowing her to maintain complete dominance as you look up at her in submission.

 

Face Sitting Safety Tips for Subs & Doms

For Subs:

Ready to become the throne? Well, before you dive headfirst into such an experience, make note of these safety tips:

Communicate Your Boundaries: Before the session, discuss what you’re comfortable with, including how much weight or pressure you can handle.

Master Your Breathing: While smothering is part of the fun, always have a way to tap out or signal if you need a break. A light tap on the thigh works well.

Be Wary of How She’s Positioned: Have her sit in a way that’s comfortable for her but doesn’t overwhelm you. Start with her weight distributed across your chest or thighs before she fully settles onto your face.

For Dommes:

Take Your Time: Face sitting is about control, so don’t rush. Tease them by hovering just out of reach before lowering your lips onto their lips.

Listen and Watch: Pay attention to your submissive’s breathing and body language. You want them to feel challenged, not panicked.

Add a Little Flair: Combine face sitting with other elements of domination, like verbal teasing or using a vibrator on yourself while they watch helplessly.

Read our guide to safe BDSM explorations for further details.

 

The Best Tools & Toys for Face Sitting

“For me, the best face sitting sessions are the ones where I get to put my toys to the test,” says Mistress Paola, a professional dominatrix. “It’s all about me, after all. And if I want a knee-shaking orgasm, then get ready for me to bring out the big guns.”

Well, there you have it, boys. While all you technically need for face sitting is, well, your body, it appears there are a few toys and tools that can help make the experience that much better:

Queening Chairs: These specially designed chairs have an open seat, allowing the dominant partner to sit comfortably while the submissive partner stays beneath. It’s great for extended sessions or for anyone who prefers a little less pressure, and can be found in any one of the best BDSM stores in London. 

Bondage Gear: Add some handcuffs, ankle restraints, or a spreader bar for your mistress to keep you in place.

Blindfolds: Get her to heighten your other senses by taking away their ability to see what’s coming next.

Nipple Clamps & Vibrators: Incorporate other forms of stimulation during face sitting to make the experience even more intense for both partners.

 

Ready for a Breathtaking Experience?

Want to experience the art of face sitting with a seasoned professional? Look no further than the experts at Bed Domination.

To book your face sitting session, simply fill out our online form or give us a ring on 0780 913 8166. You better hurry though; our mistresses don't like to be kept waiting, especially when they've got a throne to warm up...

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