3 Things You Need to Know Before Going to Your Strap-on Session

So you’ve decided to take the exciting leap into the realm of strap-on play. We are so excited for you! Being pegged by a sexy mistress with a strap-on is an incredibly empowering and pleasurable experience. We want you to have the best time possible when seeing one of our expert strap-on dominatrixes, and have put together this thorough guide of things to be aware of and prepare for before your first strap-on session. 

Learn Your Likes and Limitations 

Perhaps you’ve already had some alone time in the bedroom with anal toys, or perhaps this world is totally new to you, either way, it’s important to know what you can enjoy and handle so you can communicate clearly with your mistress. 

If you have never put anything up your butt before, that’s totally okay, we’ve all been there! You might be tempted to wait until your session to explore this new experience in the comfort of an expert, and while that might work out well for most fetishes, with strap-ons you might not have the best time. The thing is, a strap-on is a dildo attached to a harness - it’s a long and large object, and your butt will not be happy with you if the first thing that ever goes into it is rather big. Spend some time alone in a relaxed environment and start small with just one finger. And be sure to use lube (more on that in the next section)! As you build up comfort (which happens much faster than you’d expect), add more fingers and transition to toys - we recommend silicone toys for beginners as it is a softer material. Once you have worked your way up to a dildo and have found out how to make it enjoyable, you are ready to be penetrated by a strap-on. 

If you’re more familiar with the pleasure of anal penetration, it’s a great idea to try out a variety of dildos. Did you know that some strap-ons vibrate? Once you give a vibrating dildo a go, you might never go back! You may have gotten into anal play with softer silicone toys, so it might be time to give some tougher and more intense PVC dildos a go. Or perhaps you’re ready to try some dildos that are rather long and girthy. Allow yourself the opportunity to do some deeper self discovery in the comfort of your home, so when you show up to your strap-on session you know exactly what kinds of requests you want to make (or avoid). 

Regardless of your level of experience, our lovely dominatrixes will always foster a safe energy of experimentation. You will be in good hands if you want to do some exploration together and will never be shamed or made to feel embarrassed if you don’t like the sensation. Our ladies are highly adaptable and will quickly have you feeling amazing again in no time. All we’re saying is to spend some time getting acquainted with your body beforehand so you can make the most of your session and get right to what feels the best for you. 

Know Your Lube 

Lube comes in a couple varieties and when using dildos or strap-ons it’s important to know the differences as some can cause damage to toys. It’s also important to do skin tests if you’ve never tried lube before, as putting a lubed toy all the way up your butt would be a terrible way to learn that you have skin sensitivities or allergies. 

Water-based Lube 

Water-based lube is known for being gentle on sensitive skin and is an all-round favourite. Importantly, this type of lube won’t damage condoms or silicone toys, making it an excellent choice for your strap-on session. However, this lube isn’t known for its longevity, so be sure to top up if things start to feel dry. 

Oil-based Lube

This type of lube tends to last longer than water-based variants making it a preferable choice for some pegging enthusiasts. However, oil-based lubes have a habit of staining bed sheets and your mistress may not permit you to use it during an incall. But if you’ve got her for an outcall in your home and don’t mind the potential of staining your sheets, this may become your go-to. 

Silicone-based Lube

Silicone lubes are the longest lasting, meaning you won’t have to worry about reapplication much during your session. BUT, and this is unfortunately a very big but to be aware of, silicone-based lubes destroy and degrade silicone toys. So if your mistress brings out a sexy and delightfully terrifying silicone strap-on, it would be absolutely unacceptable to request the use of silicone lube. An exception to this of course, is if non-silicone based toys are used, in which case, it won’t be a problem. Just know that the most popular strap-ons tend to be silicone, so this is something to be very aware of if this is usually your lube of choice. 

Natural or Aloe Vera Lube 

Aloe vera is a plant with some amazingly soothing qualities, which makes it a fantastic lube. They last longer than water-based lubes and of course, you get to enjoy its soothing qualities in a very sensitive place. However, your butthole is the last place you want to put aloe vera if you turn out to be allergic to it, so please do a skin test first! 

Know That You Will be in Good Hands!

It can be intimidating to think about a woman going through your backdoor entrance for the first time, so we’d like to reassure you that our dominatrixes are experts at their trade and will always prioritise your comfort. Strap-on sessions are especially thrilling because of the power dynamics at play, but that of course can also be a terrifying thought. Know that pegging is not an act of emasculation but empowerment - our mistresses wield your vulnerability with great care, gentleness, and respect. If you don’t want to experiment with domination during your session, it is absolutely not mandatory! Our ladies are here to cater to your desires and provide you with a thrilling yet safe environment to explore new parts of yourself and reach incredible levels of pleasure. 

We hope this has been a helpful read to get you prepared and excited for your session with one of our sexy strap-on dominatrixes! As a quick refresher, we recommend getting to know your butt intimately and what it likes and doesn’t like, find out what lube you like best (or are willing to switch to), and remember that you’ll be in the care of an expert who will do her best to elicit wild pleasure during your time together. That’s all, and we hope you have the most wonderful time!